These past few months, I have been on a journey with a few more women to become whole. We met each week to learn more about being Wife Material.
And I know when you hear that, you’re thinking that all we talked about was preparing for the man and doing everything that a woman needs to do before marriage to lure the man in and trap a Man of God, but you’re wrong.
Our focus was us. Our focus was INTIMACY WITH GOD. Our focus was breaking ungodly soul ties. Our focus was forgiveness. Our focus was wholeness. Our focus was purpose and who preparing for our TRIBE of people that we are called to teach, lead, direct and comfort.
We were exposed to the real understanding of what it means to be a Proverbs 31 Woman. We learnt about our personalities and what it means for our friendships, relationships, and all of our connections.
If we are honest with ourselves, we know that one of the hardest things for any of us is to do is Unpack our Past. I think for the most part, once it was in the past, I allowed it to stay there.
One of the biggest plans that I had entering this mentorship was really to just be honest. I wasn’t going to go home with the same thoughts or struggles that plagued my mind.
I decided that this is an important time in my life, and I need to take advantage of the safe space that I have and trust that everything that I do here, uncomfortable or not, will be chiseling me into becoming whole.
I realised through this mentorship that a lot of things that were norms in my life and thought process were really some of the things that were holding me back from pursuing purpose in wholeness and just being the best person I can be.
I had many moments of, “Ruth-Ann, I love you but the dutty stand up inna yuh”
I realised too that I did indeed have God oriented people around me because they would be very clear in letting me know those areas that needed to be adjusted and cleaned up.
When I started this blog post, I wanted to share all the things I learnt and the now things I’ll now adapt in my life like a new way of worship and just walking in confidence because happiness is attractive, but I realise that all I have learnt cannot be placed in one blog. There are so many things that I had experienced and was a part of both internally and collectively, that if I did so, some of you would be asking for the printed copy.
So, I’m putting this blog out there to say, if I can complete a mentorship like this, you can. If I struggled with completing stuff for whatever reason of had issues being fully committed, you definitely can unpack your past and prepare yourself to be whole for the whole person who will be presented before you.
I’ve never felt so full in my life. But, don’t think that just because I got this certificate means I’m done and I’m over being molded and out the aim of Aunty’s correction and the Holy Spirits revelation. All of this is the beginning of my YES to God. It’s the start of me saying, “no more will I be a victim of my past” and “I’ll stay committed no matter what happens in the end”.
So this is where I digitally turn the last page in my book of walking these streets broken, not forgiving, anxious, miserable (if we all gonna be honest, might as well I say this happens sometimes), delaying my purpose, being unsure about God’s love, and I’m no longer holding unto my past without addressing it.
You all know I do not recommend anything unless I have experienced it myself and I must say, women, if you need to finally say yes to not just knowing who you want, but being what you need to be, you need to get yourself into this ministry. It’s not a joke, it’s not a chill our spot or the place where you just want to say you’ve been to. It’s a place of healing and wholeness. And to be honest, some of us don’t realise how broken we are until someone else places a mirror in front of us.
I know a lot of my audience is not even in my home country and so I’d say see what the Lord does or even just purchase the material (get it?) online and start a book club with your close friends and see what God does in your guys weekly meetings and journey to becoming whole together.
Get yourself together and just watch what God does for you. Very few know what it took for me to even be able to say I was a part of this, or starting it, or even just being able to say, “I completed this” so I want to thank all the ladies for being amazing lifelong sisters because this definitely is not just a few months and then we don’t know each other thing.
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thanks for this ruth
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You’re most welcome
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